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Join thousands of women in treating their vaginismus with an effective, affordable, and safe treatment. Loved by specialists for years, our dilators are a tried and true treatment for vaginismus.

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Purposefully Designed

Developed and refined through specialist and customer feedback.

Silky Smooth and Sleek Surface

Designed with ease of use and effectiveness in mind.

Not Made with BPA, Latex, or Silicone

Made in the USA.

Incremental Sizes

Safe treatment through 6 different sizes for your unique body at your unique pace.

Affordable Pricing

We believe access to high quality dilators should not be a luxury.

Universal Handle

One of the best product features, the handle allows for precise movements and best control for every size dilator.

Purposefully Designed

Developed and refined through specialist and customer feedback.

Silky Smooth and Sleek Surface

Designed with ease of use and effectiveness in mind.

Not Made with BPA, Latex, or Silicone

Made in the USA.

Incremental Sizes

Safe treatment through 6 different sizes for your unique body at your unique pace.

Affordable Pricing

We believe access to high quality dilators should not be a luxury.

Universal Handle

One of the best product features, the handle allows for precise movements and best control for every size dilator.

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Hope&Her Vaginal Dilator Set

Hope&Her Vaginal Dilator Set

T8077 — Set of 6 with universal handle

Is intercourse painful, difficult, or perhaps even impossible?

Thousands of women and health professionals have chosen Hope&Her Vaginal Dilators to help treat vaginismus and related conditions.

Hope&Her Vaginal Dilators are smooth, easy to control, and light-weight.

  • 6 dilator sizes with universal handle
  • Seamless smooth texture
  • Tapered design
  • Comfortable transition between sizes
  • Do not contain BPA, latex, or silicone
  • Easy to clean
  • Basic instructions included
  • Individual use only
  • Prescription not required
  • Patented design
  • Made in the USA

Hope&Her Vaginal Dilators have been cleared by the FDA for over the counter (OTC) use and do not require a prescription.

Benefits

Usability - Convenient handle improves insertion control while keeping lubricant off one’s hands.

Maximizing comfort - Designed with a range of six sizes starting with as narrow as a pinky finger and slowing increasing in length and width.

Functional design - Developed specifically for conditions like vaginismus and related sexual pain.

Portability - For storage portability and privacy, dilators fit one inside another forming a convenient small package.

Well-regarded - A favorite set of many healthcare professionals including physical therapists, gynecologists, and therapists.

What should I know before I purchase?

The Hope&Her Vaginal Dilators help expand and relax the vagina using gradual insertion to relieve vaginismus tightness and sexual pain. (See Instructions for Use for complete Indications list)

Vaginismus

When sex or penetration is painful or uncomfortable, it is frequently due to a condition known as vaginismus. Vaginismus is vaginal tightness causing discomfort, burning, pain, penetration problems or the complete inability to have intercourse. It may occur at any age, even after enjoying intercourse previously. 

You may be wondering if you or someone you love has vaginismus. Vaginismus may be present if any of the following symptoms have been persistent for at least 6 months: 

Burning or stinging with tightness during sexual intercourse 

Difficult or impossible penetration, entry pain, uncomfortable insertion of penis 

Difficulty inserting tampons or undergoing pelvic/gynecological exams or procedures 

Avoidance of sex due to pain and/or failure 

Anxiety or fear related to having sexual intercourse due to anticipated pain 

Vaginal dilators help with vaginismus. Vaginal dilators are tube-shaped devices or tools used to gently expand and relax the vagina and surrounding pelvic muscles, relieving tightness.

Note: If you have the following symptoms, a professional medical assessment prior to purchasing dilators is required:

Abnormal vaginal discharge 

Abnormal vaginal bleeding

Skin changes to the outside of the vagina like tears, redness, bumps, etc. 

Contraindications

Do not purchase or use this product if you have a genital infection, open wounds, or pregnancy.

Prior to purchase or use, please reference the Instructions for Use for more information. 

Shipping & Returns

Shipping

*Free shipping within the USA.*

For USA orders, neither the website name nor product name is visible on the package label or shipping mailer. A generic name is used for the return address. For privacy in international orders, customs forms are completed with generic terms as much is possible. Outer packaging is plain for privacy.

Returns

Vaginal dilators are not returnable due to health and safety reasons.

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Before first use & after every use

Caring for Hope&Her Vaginal Dilators is easy. To clean, wash the parts in hot, soapy water for 30 seconds, rinse thoroughly, and dry completely. To disinfect (if desired), immerse parts in boiling water for 7 minutes, remove, cool, and dry.

Made with your safety in mind.

Hope&Her Vaginal Dilators are not made with BPA, latex, or silicone.

Storage

Hope&Her Vaginal Dilators allow for easy storage with a stackable dilator design.

Specialist & Customer Feedback

"As a pelvic floor therapist,"

"As a pelvic floor therapist, I recommend vaginal dilators frequently to help patients assist in their own care. These dilators are perfect. They have a handle which makes it easy for my patients to use, discreet so you can carry them without embarrassment and compact so that they can take them anywhere. Thank you for creating a great product!" "As a pelvic floor therapist, I recommend vaginal dilators frequently to help patients assist in their own care. These dilators... "As a pelvic floor therapist, I recommend vaginal dilators frequently to help patients assist in their own care. These dilators are perfect. They have a handle which makes it easy for my patients to use, discreet so you can carry them without embarrassment and compact so that they can take them anywhere. Thank you for creating a great product!"

"active role in treatment/recovery"

"We use the vaginal dilators to assist in lightly stretching the pelvic floor muscles … Patients are very happy with the results and by giving them the dilators they feel that they are taking an active role in their treatment/recovery. Thank you for your help with these patients." "We use the vaginal dilators to assist in lightly stretching the pelvic floor muscles … Patients are very happy with... "We use the vaginal dilators to assist in lightly stretching the pelvic floor muscles … Patients are very happy with the results and by giving them the dilators they feel that they are taking an active role in their treatment/recovery. Thank you for your help with these patients."

"I love your product"

“A patient mentioned your kit to a physiotherapy colleague who mentioned it to me. I love your product. Thank you for having the fortitude to produce it. I will certainly be promoting it in my gynaecology practise and to my OBGYN colleagues.” “A patient mentioned your kit to a physiotherapy colleague who mentioned it to me. I love your product. Thank you... “A patient mentioned your kit to a physiotherapy colleague who mentioned it to me. I love your product. Thank you for having the fortitude to produce it. I will certainly be promoting it in my gynaecology practise and to my OBGYN colleagues.”

"Sex is easy and painless"

"I wanted to send you all my many THANKS to you for your help... Sex is easy and painless for us now and we hope that other couples will not be ashamed to admit their problems and seek help. Victory can be accomplished and the reward is so VERY worth it. Thank you for providing this help to many couples." "I wanted to send you all my many THANKS to you for your help... Sex is easy and painless for... "I wanted to send you all my many THANKS to you for your help... Sex is easy and painless for us now and we hope that other couples will not be ashamed to admit their problems and seek help. Victory can be accomplished and the reward is so VERY worth it. Thank you for providing this help to many couples."

"sex for the first time!"

"Very helpful indeed...I was able to have sex for the first time!...The book was written in a very clear and concise manner...It answered all the questions/doubts that I had. So, thanks once again...your help is much appreciated." "Very helpful indeed...I was able to have sex for the first time!...The book was written in a very clear and... "Very helpful indeed...I was able to have sex for the first time!...The book was written in a very clear and concise manner...It answered all the questions/doubts that I had. So, thanks once again...your help is much appreciated."

"I'm a fourty-year-old woman..."

"I’m a forty-year-old woman who hasn’t been able to have intercourse for many years. One day I found your site, I bought your vaginismus kit and in 15 days my huge problem was solved. Thank you!" "I’m a forty-year-old woman who hasn’t been able to have intercourse for many years. One day I found your site,... "I’m a forty-year-old woman who hasn’t been able to have intercourse for many years. One day I found your site, I bought your vaginismus kit and in 15 days my huge problem was solved. Thank you!"

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