New Future Ahead

Thank you so much for your book, DVD and dilator kit. I worked with it for several months and have successfully completed the whole program. I am very grateful. My husband and I have a new future ahead. We can’t thank you enough.

Saved My Relationship

I just want to take a moment and personally thank you for doing what you do. This product saved my relationship. My husband and I have had problems having intercourse from the day we got married. While we were able to have partial inter course, it was painful and...

Exactly What I Needed

After six years of marriage, I was able to have sex for the first time with my husband two weeks ago thanks to your vaginismus treatment kit. I blame my vaginismus on a conservative upbringing in a sexually repressed religious minority culture in the US. Though my...

So Happy

Hi, This is T— from Ethiopia. I am so happy to tell you that I overcome vaginismus by using your kit. Thank you. I am on step ten now I am working to enjoy sex.

By Far What Helped Me Most

I started this program in June 2014. At the time I had not been able to have intercourse for 3 years. My marriage was not consummated and my husband was ready to leave. Now, 6 months later, our marriage has been consummated and we are starting over together. I...

Helped Me

The reason why I’m writing this account is because this website helped me a lot and now I feel the need to help other couples. When I found out about the kit and I read the reviews, despite not having much hope, I thought I should give it a try. The kit took a...

Helped Me Totally Overcome

Several years ago I ordered the vaginismus treatment kit. I’ve always wanted to thank you because it helped me totally overcome this problem and my husband and I are fine now – with a naturally conceived four year old son!

Gained So Much

My story began at a young age when I was forced to experience things sexually that I should not have been experiencing at that time. This affected me as it lowered my confidence self esteem. When I found a very special man in my life, we started to have problems with...

Beautiful, Loving, Nurturing

I’m writing to express my thanks to you for writing such a beautiful, loving, nurturing book that has transformed my sexual relationship with my husband. Together for 16 years, this “issue” which went without a name for about 15 years had us both...

Amazing Experience

After over a year of trying to consummate our marriage I decided to search the internet for answers. I was tired of feeling like a disappointment to my husband. I was tired of hiding the truth from friends and family..at times even lying to them when questions about...

Life-changing program

I am writing to thank you so much for your wonderful program. My wife has struggled with Vaginismus all her life, has never been able to make love, and never understood what the real problem was. We have only been together for a few months but with the help of your...

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have been using your program for about a month and a half now, and today, my fiance and I were finally able to have sex again!!!! This program really works and I thank everyone for making it possible to provide this product to women in need of it. Thank you soooooo...

I can’t say thanks enough

My story began when my husband and I first got married, 4 months ago. We had waited until we were married to have intercourse of any kind. I noticed when I went for my first pap smear (which was over due) that it hurt and stung. I felt like I was being ripped apart. I...

Great work!

Thank you for the prompt reply. The best thing I liked about you vaginismus is that you are very quick in response. A few years back when I send one email to vaginismus, I got a very quick response. I had many queries. Daily I used to write emails to vaginismus and...

Baby News!

I would just like to send a belated thank you to you and your company. We now have a little baby boy and without your help I doubt he would be here. Thankyou! Thankyou!

Fantastic

I have purchased your treatment kit approx. a year ago, and it has been fantastic in treating my vaginismus condition. Had I not come across your website I would not have been able to receive help from my regular GP, I cannot thank you enough and should have done so...

Thank You So Much

Thank you so much vaginismus.com, especially Mark & Lisa Carter who care so much for thousands of women like us. I’m a woman from Bangladesh who was suffering from vaginismus and seeking help for last five years. And by the grace of Allah one day I found...

Amazing Treatment Kit

My husband and I got married a year and a half ago in March 2012, having waited until marriage to have sex (as Christians). As everyone has already said, it was a horrible shock to discover that he was ‘hitting a wall’ and couldn’t go in at all. Over...

Invaluable Guidance and Inspiration

I am writing to thank you for your services that have helped me to overcome my primary vaginismus. I purchased the full kit eight months ago, and am now happy to say that I have been cured of this condition. I still remember how my hands quivered when I googled my...

This Is An Amazing Program

Thank-you so much helping me. My husband and I have been married for 7 years. We have been unable to have sex more than a few times a year. There is no logical explanation for my vaginismus (I was never abused, had an injury, surgery, or an overly strict upbringing)....

No Other Techniques Worked

My wife and I had been married two years before we found your site. We ordered the kit (i.e. the books and the dilators) and followed the program diligently. We are happy to tell you that we successfully consummated our marriage last week. We cannot tell you how...

Best Thing

I would just like to thank you so very much for providing this program and the kit! After discovering that I had vaginismus four months ago I was disheartened by the lack of information and help that seemed to be available to me. However, after some searching I...

Thank You From The Bottom Of My Heart

Thank you, thank you, Thank you from the bottom of my heart.. I know I could not have done it without your help and the kit. My first marriage was unconsummated and I was miserable wondering if I could break this pattern in my second marriage. I didn’t even try...

Best Decision Of My Life

Struggling with Vaginismus has been the hardest thing I have ever had to go through. I was depressed and felt like I would never overcome. I had heard about the kit, but didn’t want to pay the price, especially if we could do it on our own for free. But after 10...

Immensely Grateful

I thought I was a desperate case.I bought the “Completely overcome vaginismus” kit and followed the programme supported by my husband’s support and patience. I still can’t believe that we made it! We still have many things to learn and difficulties to overcome and it...

So Relieved

A big weight off my shoulders!Thank u! I visited a gynacologist after being married for nearly 4 years and not having pain free sex! She suggested using ur kit during the Christmas break and if it didn’t work, suggested doing a surgery .. I had no faith in the...

Happily Normal Married Couple

Hi, First thing I would like to say -THANKS A LOT TO VAGINISMUS! This email is regarding use of product “Vaginismus Treatment Kit”. Actually I am writing this email very late. My wife suffered with vaginismus problem a few years back. Initially we did not understand...

An Overcomer

Thank you so much for the wonderful treatment program – it’s changed my life and helped me get over vaginismus, a condition I was beginning to think, had no cure. I’ve been married for 5.5 years and have been living with vaginismus for all these years. Over the years...

Never Dreamed This Was Possible

I ordered the workbooks and pack from you just over a year ago, having got to the point of thinking nothing would ever help me get through my vaginismus. It took me a long time to work through the workbooks (I wasn’t convinced I was help-able), but carried on...

A Miracle For Me

I just wanted to thank you for your website and your vaginismus kit. I am 39 years old and was unable to have intercourse until now. I can’t believe it took so long to find a solution to my problem. Finding your website was a miracle for me. I ordered the kit...

Oh, Happy Day

I simply cannot express to you how grateful I am for your book and the vaginal trainers. I was one of those girls who waited until her wedding night, and I know the two of you need not imagine my horror when I found I was unable to consummate my marriage. One...

Victory Over Vaginismus

I wanted to send you all my many THANKS to you for your help. Here’s my story–hopefully it will be an encouragement to other women: “Victory Over Vaginismus” My husband and I were both surprised when we were not able to have sex on our...

Nine years without intercourse

Hello I just want to thank you for the help your products provided for my wife and myself. We went for nine years without having intercourse. I found your website and after sometime of getting over the embarrassment I ordered the kit for my wife and then waited months...

It has changed our lives

Hi Lisa – Just to let you know I purchased dilators and books from you a couple of months ago. And on wednesday we finally had intercourse! We can’t thank you enough it has changed our lives. Thank you so much.

Your kit is life-changing

Thank you, thank you, thank you a million times thank you for your amazing kit!!! It has really helped me and I am sooo happy and grateful to you guys. When I lost my viriginity the experience was horrible for me, extremely painful and since then I haven’t been...

All her pain, anxiety is gone

Thank you Self Help Kit!! My wife is pregnant. I am from Dubai, United Arab Emirates. We have been married for three years and consulted many doctors during these period as we can’t have sex. All the doctor seriously criticized my wife, even my family. It...

Best thing I have done for myself

I cannot explain in words how grateful this kit has been (I am in tears…tears of JOY). I am from a South Asian country and believed in no sex till marriage, only to find out that sex had been impossible for me after marriage. We’ve tried for 2 years, but...

It is possible!

Several months ago I found your web site and purchased your kit. I had vaginismus and can’t thank your web site enough for not only helping me diagnose what was happening but also to offer me a solution! A solution that I worked on through your web site, your...

Gave me courage

Dear Mark & Lisa I would like to say to you thank you a lot!!!! Tonight my husband and I were able to have our first complete intercourse! I do not still believe it is true!! We experienced in a wonderful way, since it was without any pain or discomfort. We got...

I am COMPLETELY better!

I just want to say THANK YOU for your wonderful product!!!! I had vaginismus for the first four years of my marriage. I didn’t understand what was wrong. It was very embarrassing to me, and I felt terrible to my husband. I finally got the nerve to talk to my...

It sounds corny but words cannot express

Thank you so much for the kit, it has changed my life. I have been suffering from secondary vaginismus since I was 18 and I am now 29. I have seen every consultant going and with no joy until now. In January 2009 I vowed to get better and went to see my GP. Thank...

Cried in each other's arms

I just have to write with tears rolling down my cheeks and say THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! My husband and I decided to wait until after marriage to have sex, and soon discovered that it wasn’t happening. We tried a few times with no success — just...

4 years of miserable guilt and anxiety

Dear Mark and Lisa Carter, I want to you thank you and your team for putting this great resource together-It not only helped me overcome vaginismus, but freed me from the miserable guilt and anxiety that had engulfed me for the past 4 years of my married life. I did...

11 months of extreme pain

How can I say thank you enough for your wonderful website and products? My husband and I had been married 11 months but the extreme pain during intercourse had reduced our sex life to zero! In our frustration, we had tried silly things like getting me drunk in the...

Unable to have sex

I just want to give you my positive feedback after using your product. I have purchase the book/dilator kit and the result is amazing. Before your site, I have visited numerous physician and they don’t really have an answer to cure my problem. I was worry about...

Great and Quick

I wanted to thank you for making the book and kit available. Your service in sending it out was great and quick and easy, and your website is excellent and informative and so glad I found it. I wish we had someone like you in the UK! Kind regards [Editors Note: We are...

Constructive Criticism

I am writing to thank you for your excellent kit and also offer a constructive criticism of the website. I overcame vaginismus in about 6 weeks using your kit, and am very thankful for this. I also found the forum extremely helpful, and still use it from time to time....

A 1000 'Thank yous'

I am 68 years old and my husband is 54. For 5 to 8 years now intercourse has been increasingly painful. I have visited several doctors over the years with no relief. My family doctor said I did not need to see a gynecologist and told me to use [vaginal moisturizer]...

Kit was fantastic

I suffered with Vaginismus for years and my long term relationship suffered… we finally broke up 18 months ago, but I ordered the kit from your site and decided to finally overcome this problem. The kit was fantastic and helped me no end… I have been using...

Thanks for helping me get my life back

Thank you so much for this website and for producing the self-treatment kit available on this site. I’ve been anxious about having anything inserted into my vagina since I was at least fifteen. All through high school and college, I have been tormented with this...

Very grateful

I want to thank you for publishing these helpful books and for developing the dilators. I have been married for almost three years now, and had never experienced intercourse before marriage. Our honeymoon was frustrating and painful, but we were able to achieve...

Live the life that you deserve

I want to thank you and your husband from the bottom of my heart for helping me to cure my vaginismus. I have suffered from this since my teens but it really became a problem for me after I married the most wonderful, patient understanding man in the world. I got so...

Really really really effective

I have had vag. since I got married in June 2008, but I did not realize what it was called and it is a shared condition with so many other women [until] after research I did with my husband . . around December 2008. Before that we were trying desperately on our own...

Whole new approach

I read the . . book twice already It was a whole new approach to me, so I wanted to read it completely to understand it better before the treatment. Now, I am at the Step 4. I loved this approach. It gave me a lot of explanations I needed and I think it was like a...

Cannot thank you enough

Hello..!! I would like to inform you that I have successfully completed the vaginismus self help programme and after three years of unconsummated marriage I am now able to have satisfactory intercourse with my husband. I took approximately 2 months to complete the...

Major bonus!

I overcame vaginismus in December 2007 and while I do contribute to the forum I never sent a message to say how very very thankful I am to your website and products for bringing me where I am today – that is being able to enjoy pain free sex. I still remember...

Happiest woman alive

I would like to thank you for saving my marriage. Me and my husband have been trying to have sex for years and we would end up more and more frustrated every single time we would try. After a while we got sick of trying and trying because we would get no where!! We...

Wanted to scream it from the roof tops

In the past I have seen a psychosexual counsellor, and a (very expensive!) top Harley Street (London) sex therapist. Both treatments unsuccessful – that’s when I decided to google ‘vaginismus’ on the internet and stubbled across the website....

Words are not enough

I must express my sincere gratitude to you, for this great thing you did for me. I got the kit yesterday – you are so wonderful, words are not enough for me to thank you. I pray that you always get help whenever and wherever you need it. Thank you so much.

Excited

I purchased your kit awhile back and finally started the process. I am done and was excited to be able to try intercourse for the first time in 2 years. Thank you for your help.

Enjoying my life again

I just wanted to let you know that I bought Vaginismus Kit a few months ago and I’m now free and enjoying my life again. My husband and I are trying for a baby now, which was something I could only dream about a few months back. I wanted to thank you and if it...

Overcame secondary vaginismus

I recently purchased the vaginismus kit for myself and found it remarkably effective. Within three weeks I overcame my secondary vaginismus.  I’d suffered with it for two years (post breast cancer, surgery, radiation, chemo, and the discontinuance of...

Depressing days are over

I want to thank you with all my heart. I received your products, and with concentration on the treatment, I managed to insert my husband’s penis. It was the most exciting moment of my life and best of all I didn’t even realize when he went in. It is all...

Hope to women all around the world

I’ve progressed very well from D1-D2 and now busy with D3. (I’m having a little bit of difficulty there but will keep going at it.) I’m writing because I cannot begin to explain how truly grateful I am for your help. I think I would’ve lost all...

Intercourse without fear or pain

I am currently 39 years old and recently overcame my lifelong  disorder of vaginismus through the help of the book Completely Overcome Vaginismus by Mark and Lisa Carter. Although I attempted various other methods in the past and failed, this book was absolutely...

Incredibly blessed

We became parents to a beautiful little girl in August. The pregnancy and birth all went really well. The thought of becoming parents seemed impossible to us for a long time. We married in September 2002. We overcame vaginismus in April 2006. Your kit played a crucial...

Successful in conceiving

We would like to thank you for the great help you have offered us. We purchased your kit and I was successful in conceiving in 6 months time. We have been married for 5 years and have been trying for a baby since then, but it was your kit and His Blessings that did...

Complete confidence

I cannot tell you the sense of gratitude I (we) have for the materials you and your husband developed. I’d been using other forms of dilators until your kit arrived and then began all the instructions immediately…  and voila…we’re having a...

Tears of hope

It worked I’m crying tears of hope as I read others stories. I am so thankful that God put that interim doctor in the right place at the right time and she was able to say exactly what it was, without us having to go through all the painful years of not knowing...

The entire kit was helpful

I just wanted to thank you and Mark for sharing your stories. Thanks to your helpful kit, I have been able to overcome vaginismus and engage in sex for the first time with my loving and supportive boyfriend. It’s such a great feeling because I never thought it...

Not alone

I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for providing your information and products.  I ordered your book, and found that self-education has been 90% of my problem! My OBGYN basically laughed at me when I told her my symptoms, but your book addressed the...

Suffered for more than 10 years

My story began when I wanted to be a mother. I suffered with vaginismus for more than 10 years. I thought that with time, patience, and being more relaxed I would solve my problem by myself. It is a problem difficult to share with other people and I felt ashamed, very...

Very empowering

Thank you! Thank you! And Thank You!!! My husband and I were able to consummate our 7 year marriage. We are now able to have pain free intercourse without the help of dilators. I can proudly say that we overcame Vaginismus. We were frustrated cause, there was nothing...

I did it!

I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 5 YEARS AND I HAVE BEEN SUFFERING FROM VAG SINCE MY MARRIAGE NIGHT WHICH IS THE FIRST SEX TRIAL FOR ME. I HAVE SEEN 3 THERAPISTS AND GYNECOLOGISTS AND HAD EXTENDED TIME THERAPY BUT I COULDN’T SUCCEED. I EVEN COULDN’T OPEN MY LEGS...

2 weeks pregnant

I’m happy to inform you that my wife is 2 weeks pregnant. We thank God for this. This must have happened in my wife’s first cycle after overcoming Vaginismus. Pls rejoice with us.

Painless intercourse after 4 weeks

THANKS A LOT – Hi Lisa, I’m happy to inform you that my wife and I were able to have painless intercourse just about 4 weeks into the programme. We deeply thank God for making you and your partner a blessing unto the world. We also thank you for making...

The treatment really works

The treatment worked for me. It is simple to understand and follow the steps. I am free from Vaginismus just using the kit. I am also 5 months pregnant as well. I want others to know that the treatment really works. Thank you So much.

It will happen to you

My husband and I have been married for 11 years. We have been trying to have intercourse, year after year. I thought I was a loser, a weakling. I couldn’t believe I couldn’t handle pain. I always thought “How come everyone can do it but me? What is...

16 years without intercourse

I was so pleased to discover your website last summer. My husband and I had been married for over sixteen years but had never been able to have intercourse. Although we have a wonderful, happy marriage, I always felt that there was a part of me that was incomplete as...

Appreciate it beyond words

I had been with my boyfriend for over a year, and we hadn’t had sex. I truly though there was something very very wrong with me. I thought I was a freak because there was no way we could have intercourse. I started looking online to see if anyone else had my...

Giving hope

You have helped so many people with this difficult problem and given them hope in their life, and now you are helping me, too. Thank you once again so kindly. I hope to let you know soon that I have succeeded with overcoming this problem. Thank you so much for your...

Have now overcome

Hi, I had Vaginismus since 2002 and have now overcome it. I bought one of your kits a few years back. I would like to chat in the forum but I cannot see how to sign up anywhere. Please let me know if I can because I feel like I might be able to help some people going...

Overcame within 20 days

I would like to express my gratitude to you and to all the specialists that have produced these kits. Thanks a lot – my life has changed dramatically! And I feel myself much more better than I was before! Thanks a lot again! I managed to overcome it within 20...

You are my miracle

Me and my husband want to thank Mark and Lisa Carter for this great book and all the others on this site. You have done a great job by proving a solution to Vaginismus. I don’t have words to express my joy. Every women who has this problem would understand the...

Resolution after 20 years

I just wanted to say that I bought the vaginismus kit (dilators and books) recently and I am very happy. After over 20 years of being unable to have intercourse, I had sex for the first time in my life! It was a miracle! I have been in a relationship for over 7 months...

Help for secondary vaginismus

I found your books (the book and work book) really good for always taking into account that things might have been different for those of us with secondary vaginismus. Having secondary vaginismus, my biggest question was “why”? If I’d been able to...

Thank you from the bottom of my heart

My GP was actually really sensitive, a gentle woman. The best thing she said was not to try to have sex through the pain, to stop having sex altogether until I had resolved the vaginismus. This really took the pressure off as I was able to tell my husband this...

Your kit is amazing

I think your kit is amazing. When we were virtually unable to have sex after my daughter’s birth, I spoke to my midwife, went to 2 ob/gyns and to lots of appointments with my GP. I had scans and examinations, and all they could come up with was a diagnosis of...

Awesome

I’ve already watched the DVD and started to read the book. It is awesome and I like the idea that everything is discussed in great detail for me to understand why things are happening the way it does! Already, just by reading the book, I’m starting to feel...

Overcame and baby due soon

My husband and I experienced undiagnosed primary vaginismus for 3 years, and finally had the joy (after purchasing your kit and completing the workbooks and therapy) of consumating our marriage on our anniversary! In our bliss, we didn’t even think about...

I (single woman) am living proof

THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! I am a single woman who has suffered from vaginismus for over 18 years. I spent years dating and attempting to lose my virginity to no avail. Each experience was more emotionally painful than the next as each of these men...

I'm a new woman!

Dear Lisa, I just posted on the secondary chat site [in the private vaginismus forum]. I achieved success last week … For both of us it was just wonderful! He is the most amazing man I have ever met! Thank you so much for your support. … Thanks again for...

It did change my life

I would like to give a comment on your complete set of Vaginismus Kit. To make a long story short, I’m a 27 yr old woman who never had sexual intercourse in my life. Even pap smear is painful every year. I have dated some guys but it was never sex involved. I...

A huge blessing

This whole program has been a huge blessing in our lives. We ordered the kit in March, and I didn’t join the forum until last month. I couldn’t believe I waited so long because the forum was a huge support to me. I had no idea that vaginismus was a part of...

Best thing I ever did

We don’t know how to thank you. I did not think sex was possible. Everytime we tried having sex we were unsuccessful. After 4 years of dating and then getting married. Sex was not a part of our lives which left me feeling frustrated . Even the OBGYN said there...

Tone of your book is brilliant

Hi, I bought one of your treatment packs and I’m really pleased with the results so far, so thank you very much! I think the tone of your book is brilliant and it is a great help knowing there are people who understand what I’m going through … Thank...

Nothing but wonderful things to say

My youngest sister got your vaginismus kit and has nothing but wonderful things to say about it. My other sister was just diagnosed with vaginismus today. My mom and I have been to this site to get as much information for her as possible … I’ve had painful...

Happy news

I just wanted to share with you the happy news that after three weeks of using my dilators I have now been able to have full sexual intercourse with my partner. I can’t thank you enough for your support and openness during this difficult process. Thank goodness...

High recommendations

Hi, I just ordered the set of books. Looking forward to reading them, you came with high recommendations. I am on a personal quest. I have dealt with vaginismus for 17 years, and just this last summer diagnosed myself on accident. I’ve seen about 10 different...

I finally realized I was not alone

I am extremely grateful … when I received the books and read about vaginismus I finally realized that I was not alone. Like many, many women, I had been to my gynecologist several times and she said that there was nothing wrong with me. She could not offer me...