New Future Ahead

Thank you so much for your book, DVD and dilator kit. I worked with it for several months and have successfully completed the whole program. I am very grateful. My husband and I have a new future ahead. We can’t thank you enough.

Saved My Relationship

I just want to take a moment and personally thank you for doing what you do. This product saved my relationship. My husband and I have had problems having intercourse from the day we got married. While we were able to have partial inter course, it was painful and...

Very Happy

I am very happy to inform you that I have received my kit today. Everything is in good condition. I want to say a big thank you to the Company for all the efforts they made in ensuring that I receive this product. My wife and I will go through the program step by step...

Exactly What I Needed

After six years of marriage, I was able to have sex for the first time with my husband two weeks ago thanks to your vaginismus treatment kit. I blame my vaginismus on a conservative upbringing in a sexually repressed religious minority culture in the US. Though my...

So Happy

Hi, This is T— from Ethiopia. I am so happy to tell you that I overcome vaginismus by using your kit. Thank you. I am on step ten now I am working to enjoy sex.

By Far What Helped Me Most

I started this program in June 2014. At the time I had not been able to have intercourse for 3 years. My marriage was not consummated and my husband was ready to leave. Now, 6 months later, our marriage has been consummated and we are starting over together. I...

The Best Information

I am really grateful that you created this website. Your website provides the best information about this condition. I finally found out last year that I have vaginismus. I did not know what was wrong with me and when I finally decided to go see a doctor, the first...

Thank You Very Much

I wanted to thank you very much for resending me the kit. I received it on the 7th. Can’t tell you how happy I am to have received it. And so quickly. Thank you so much for your consideration. Can’t express enough my appreciation.

Favorite Choice

Thanks very much! You guys remain my favorite dilators of choice for patients with vaginismus (cost, ease of use). Dr. Lynn Wang, Gynecologist AASECT certified sexuality counselor and educator Profession advisory board member for Breastcancer.org Main Line Gynecologic...

Curable

This is a curable condition. After menopause I experienced vaginismus. It went undiagnosed and not understood by three different doctors. Finally I was diagnosed and sent for pelvic floor physiotherapy. The physiotherapist recommended I buy the vaginismus product and...

Helped Me

The reason why I’m writing this account is because this website helped me a lot and now I feel the need to help other couples. When I found out about the kit and I read the reviews, despite not having much hope, I thought I should give it a try. The kit took a...

8 Years Later . .

I have been practicing in NYC for 20 years and specializing in pelvic health physical therapy and manual orthopedics. I sent you positive feedback about your dilator set originally in 2006. Now it is 8 years later and I have found your dilator set to be one of the...

Invaluable Resources

Thank you for writing these invaluable resources! I was diagnosed with vaginismus shortly before getting married in 2011. My husband and I are both psychotherapists, and we know professionally, and now personally, how devastating vaginismus can be. God greatly used...

Helped Me Totally Overcome

Several years ago I ordered the vaginismus treatment kit. I’ve always wanted to thank you because it helped me totally overcome this problem and my husband and I are fine now – with a naturally conceived four year old son!

Gained So Much

My story began at a young age when I was forced to experience things sexually that I should not have been experiencing at that time. This affected me as it lowered my confidence self esteem. When I found a very special man in my life, we started to have problems with...

Finally understood the problem

Thank you so much. I had repeatedly been to the gynecologist without any true help. My husband and I felt so lost, and when we found your website it was like someone finally understood the problem. The dilators were a god-sent! After a few months of going through each...

Beautiful, Loving, Nurturing

I’m writing to express my thanks to you for writing such a beautiful, loving, nurturing book that has transformed my sexual relationship with my husband. Together for 16 years, this “issue” which went without a name for about 15 years had us both...

Amazing Experience

After over a year of trying to consummate our marriage I decided to search the internet for answers. I was tired of feeling like a disappointment to my husband. I was tired of hiding the truth from friends and family..at times even lying to them when questions about...

Life-changing program

I am writing to thank you so much for your wonderful program. My wife has struggled with Vaginismus all her life, has never been able to make love, and never understood what the real problem was. We have only been together for a few months but with the help of your...

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have been using your program for about a month and a half now, and today, my fiance and I were finally able to have sex again!!!! This program really works and I thank everyone for making it possible to provide this product to women in need of it. Thank you soooooo...

I can’t say thanks enough

My story began when my husband and I first got married, 4 months ago. We had waited until we were married to have intercourse of any kind. I noticed when I went for my first pap smear (which was over due) that it hurt and stung. I felt like I was being ripped apart. I...

Great work!

Thank you for the prompt reply. The best thing I liked about you vaginismus is that you are very quick in response. A few years back when I send one email to vaginismus, I got a very quick response. I had many queries. Daily I used to write emails to vaginismus and...

Baby News!

I would just like to send a belated thank you to you and your company. We now have a little baby boy and without your help I doubt he would be here. Thankyou! Thankyou!

Fantastic

I have purchased your treatment kit approx. a year ago, and it has been fantastic in treating my vaginismus condition. Had I not come across your website I would not have been able to receive help from my regular GP, I cannot thank you enough and should have done so...

So Grateful

I am a 55 year old single woman. I am so grateful that I found this website and product. I wish that I had known about this common problem. I really thought that sex was never going to be a part of my life again after menopause. It would be nice if we could educate...

Very Satisfied

Don’t know if you remember of me, asking about my order something like a month ago. Well, the thing is, I just want to give you people a feedback about the dilator set. My girlfriend started using it on january 13th, regarding the treatment of vaginismus. Well,...

No More Pain!

Thank you, thank you, thank you! This is a great product. I can’t believe after suffering for so long I have finally found a product that solved my problem and now no more pain! My husband thanks you too!

Extremely Satisfied

After reading about and realizing I had vaginismus, and after many many failed attempts, I’d almost given up on having a “normal” sex life. Until I came across your Dilator Set, that is. It arrived barely a week after I ordered it (I live in Mumbai,...

So Very Grateful

I just wanted to let you know about my great success and relief because or your product. I have written about the dilators on my blog at missykizer.com. I have had several comments from women who are so relieved to hear there is relief for painful sex. Thank you for...

Website Very Helpful

I am a physical therapist treating many people with pelvic floor related problems. I find that this population is vastly underserved and feel that many are not aware of the services and help they can get. This website is very helpful. I want to commend this website in...

Most Helpful Work

I have treated women with vaginismus for over 20 years. Your products, and especially your books, are very helpful. They take the woman through a series of steps from education about vaginismus, exercises to prepare them for fixing the problem, and beyond. I use your...

Fabulous Resource

I think the website is a fabulous resource for women with vaginismus. There is no reinventing the wheel nowadays with such great resources like yours available. I am very happy to make a comment. Kind regards, Jocelyn Jocelyn Klug Director Relate sj Counselling and...

Thank You So Much

Thank you so much vaginismus.com, especially Mark & Lisa Carter who care so much for thousands of women like us. I’m a woman from Bangladesh who was suffering from vaginismus and seeking help for last five years. And by the grace of Allah one day I found...

Amazing Treatment Kit

My husband and I got married a year and a half ago in March 2012, having waited until marriage to have sex (as Christians). As everyone has already said, it was a horrible shock to discover that he was ‘hitting a wall’ and couldn’t go in at all. Over...

Invaluable Guidance and Inspiration

I am writing to thank you for your services that have helped me to overcome my primary vaginismus. I purchased the full kit eight months ago, and am now happy to say that I have been cured of this condition. I still remember how my hands quivered when I googled my...

Very Happy, Healthy, and Loving Sex Life

It was the month of August 2012 and we were a few months short of being married 7 years and still no sign of me getting pregnant. My biological clock is ticking fast..I never thought it would be so hard to get pregnant. All my friends were getting married and having...

This Is An Amazing Program

Thank-you so much helping me. My husband and I have been married for 7 years. We have been unable to have sex more than a few times a year. There is no logical explanation for my vaginismus (I was never abused, had an injury, surgery, or an overly strict upbringing)....

No Other Techniques Worked

My wife and I had been married two years before we found your site. We ordered the kit (i.e. the books and the dilators) and followed the program diligently. We are happy to tell you that we successfully consummated our marriage last week. We cannot tell you how...

Best Thing

I would just like to thank you so very much for providing this program and the kit! After discovering that I had vaginismus four months ago I was disheartened by the lack of information and help that seemed to be available to me. However, after some searching I...

Thank You From The Bottom Of My Heart

Thank you, thank you, Thank you from the bottom of my heart.. I know I could not have done it without your help and the kit. My first marriage was unconsummated and I was miserable wondering if I could break this pattern in my second marriage. I didn’t even try...

Best Decision Of My Life

Struggling with Vaginismus has been the hardest thing I have ever had to go through. I was depressed and felt like I would never overcome. I had heard about the kit, but didn’t want to pay the price, especially if we could do it on our own for free. But after 10...

Immensely Grateful

I thought I was a desperate case.I bought the “Completely overcome vaginismus” kit and followed the programme supported by my husband’s support and patience. I still can’t believe that we made it! We still have many things to learn and difficulties to overcome and it...

So Relieved

A big weight off my shoulders!Thank u! I visited a gynacologist after being married for nearly 4 years and not having pain free sex! She suggested using ur kit during the Christmas break and if it didn’t work, suggested doing a surgery .. I had no faith in the...

Happily Normal Married Couple

Hi, First thing I would like to say -THANKS A LOT TO VAGINISMUS! This email is regarding use of product “Vaginismus Treatment Kit”. Actually I am writing this email very late. My wife suffered with vaginismus problem a few years back. Initially we did not understand...

An Overcomer

Thank you so much for the wonderful treatment program – it’s changed my life and helped me get over vaginismus, a condition I was beginning to think, had no cure. I’ve been married for 5.5 years and have been living with vaginismus for all these years. Over the years...

Never Dreamed This Was Possible

I ordered the workbooks and pack from you just over a year ago, having got to the point of thinking nothing would ever help me get through my vaginismus. It took me a long time to work through the workbooks (I wasn’t convinced I was help-able), but carried on...

A Miracle For Me

I just wanted to thank you for your website and your vaginismus kit. I am 39 years old and was unable to have intercourse until now. I can’t believe it took so long to find a solution to my problem. Finding your website was a miracle for me. I ordered the kit...

Oh, Happy Day

I simply cannot express to you how grateful I am for your book and the vaginal trainers. I was one of those girls who waited until her wedding night, and I know the two of you need not imagine my horror when I found I was unable to consummate my marriage. One...

Victory Over Vaginismus

I wanted to send you all my many THANKS to you for your help. Here’s my story–hopefully it will be an encouragement to other women: “Victory Over Vaginismus” My husband and I were both surprised when we were not able to have sex on our...

My Favorite

Thank you so much for your generous contribution of your samples and brochures. I have been giving the patients a page I printed from your website so will use the brochures instead. I have also told physicians I work with about your product being my favorite. The...

Wonderful to feel pleasure

I am so thankful that I tried your product. After four years I can finally say I consumated my marriage. Its just wonderful to feel pleasure instead of pain. Thank you again . .

Nine years without intercourse

Hello I just want to thank you for the help your products provided for my wife and myself. We went for nine years without having intercourse. I found your website and after sometime of getting over the embarrassment I ordered the kit for my wife and then waited months...

Best relations with husband since 2008

I never would have thought I of all people would tell my story on here. But, after cancer of uterus and total hysterectomy… I found myself in the position of VERY painful sex with my husband. It just kept getting worse. I was not diagnosed, however my doctor...

It has changed our lives

Hi Lisa – Just to let you know I purchased dilators and books from you a couple of months ago. And on wednesday we finally had intercourse! We can’t thank you enough it has changed our lives. Thank you so much.

Quality product

I just wanted to thank you so much for the quality product that you have provided. My husband and I waited to have sex until our wedding night and after multiple tries at intercourse, I just couldn’t get past the severe pain. Something felt seriously wrong, we...

Big Fan

I am a clinical sexologist with a specialty in pelvic, sexual and chronic pain. I’ll be speaking next week on diagnosing and treating vaginismus at the annual conference for AASECT (American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists)....

Your kit is life-changing

Thank you, thank you, thank you a million times thank you for your amazing kit!!! It has really helped me and I am sooo happy and grateful to you guys. When I lost my viriginity the experience was horrible for me, extremely painful and since then I haven’t been...

All her pain, anxiety is gone

Thank you Self Help Kit!! My wife is pregnant. I am from Dubai, United Arab Emirates. We have been married for three years and consulted many doctors during these period as we can’t have sex. All the doctor seriously criticized my wife, even my family. It...

The best thing I have done for myself

I cannot explain in words how grateful I am for this kit (I am in tears—tears of JOY!). Being from a South Asian country and not believing in sex before marriage, I didn’t find out that sex was impossible for me until after I was married. We tried for 2 years to...

It is possible!

Several months ago I found your web site and purchased your kit. I had vaginismus and can’t thank your web site enough for not only helping me diagnose what was happening but also to offer me a solution! A solution that I worked on through your web site, your...

Gave me courage

Dear Mark & Lisa I would like to say to you thank you a lot!!!! Tonight my husband and I were able to have our first complete intercourse! I do not still believe it is true!! We experienced in a wonderful way, since it was without any pain or discomfort. We got...

I am COMPLETELY better!

I just want to say THANK YOU for your wonderful product!!!! I had vaginismus for the first four years of my marriage. I didn’t understand what was wrong. It was very embarrassing to me, and I felt terrible to my husband. I finally got the nerve to talk to my...

It sounds corny but words cannot express

Thank you so much for the kit, it has changed my life. I have been suffering from secondary vaginismus since I was 18 and I am now 29. I have seen every consultant going and with no joy until now. In January 2009 I vowed to get better and went to see my GP. Thank...

Cried in each other's arms

I just have to write with tears rolling down my cheeks and say THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! My husband and I decided to wait until after marriage to have sex, and soon discovered that it wasn’t happening. We tried a few times with no success — just...

4 years of miserable guilt and anxiety

Dear Mark and Lisa Carter, I want to you thank you and your team for putting this great resource together-It not only helped me overcome vaginismus, but freed me from the miserable guilt and anxiety that had engulfed me for the past 4 years of my married life. I did...

11 months of extreme pain

How can I say thank you enough for your wonderful website and products? My husband and I had been married 11 months but the extreme pain during intercourse had reduced our sex life to zero! In our frustration, we had tried silly things like getting me drunk in the...

Unable to have sex

I just want to give you my positive feedback after using your product. I have purchase the book/dilator kit and the result is amazing. Before your site, I have visited numerous physician and they don’t really have an answer to cure my problem. I was worry about...

Great and Quick

I wanted to thank you for making the book and kit available. Your service in sending it out was great and quick and easy, and your website is excellent and informative and so glad I found it. I wish we had someone like you in the UK! Kind regards [Editors Note: We are...

Constructive Criticism

I am writing to thank you for your excellent kit and also offer a constructive criticism of the website. I overcame vaginismus in about 6 weeks using your kit, and am very thankful for this. I also found the forum extremely helpful, and still use it from time to time....

Amazing customer service

Again, thank you so very much, I look forward to receiving the books, joining the community, sharing and reading stories of others, and one day, finally being able to put this all behind me and truly show my husband just how much I love him. What amazing customer...

Top class service

You really have top class customer service. Meg was really very helpful and responded promptly to each of my emails. I had some delivery problems but I received good support from your customer service team. And I am a very satisfied customer. You guys rock!!!:)

A 1000 'Thank yous'

I am 68 years old and my husband is 54. For 5 to 8 years now intercourse has been increasingly painful. I have visited several doctors over the years with no relief. My family doctor said I did not need to see a gynecologist and told me to use [vaginal moisturizer]...

Kit was fantastic

I suffered with Vaginismus for years and my long term relationship suffered… we finally broke up 18 months ago, but I ordered the kit from your site and decided to finally overcome this problem. The kit was fantastic and helped me no end… I have been using...

Thanks for helping me get my life back

Thank you so much for this website and for producing the self-treatment kit available on this site. I’ve been anxious about having anything inserted into my vagina since I was at least fifteen. All through high school and college, I have been tormented with this...

Most informative

I was referred to this site by pelvic floor physical therapists for some internal vaginal muscle triggers after hysterectomy. I wanted to contact you and tell you that your information on your symptoms and causes tabs is the most informative I’ve been able to...

Much relief

Thank you for your reply which has helped a lot. I also phoned one of the therapists who gave you feedback on the website who has confirmed what you have said. We have been told in the past by a relationship counsellor that they had never heard of this issue before...

Thrilled there is hope

I have not yet ordered the kit, but am so excited to do so. After 11 years of a happy but unconsummated marriage, I am thrilled that there is hope. When we were first married, the doctors who examined me had little to no knowledge on vaginismus. I actually had an...

Very grateful

I want to thank you for publishing these helpful books and for developing the dilators. I have been married for almost three years now, and had never experienced intercourse before marriage. Our honeymoon was frustrating and painful, but we were able to achieve...

Live the life that you deserve

I want to thank you and your husband from the bottom of my heart for helping me to cure my vaginismus. I have suffered from this since my teens but it really became a problem for me after I married the most wonderful, patient understanding man in the world. I got so...

Really really really effective

I have had vag. since I got married in June 2008, but I did not realize what it was called and it is a shared condition with so many other women [until] after research I did with my husband . . around December 2008. Before that we were trying desperately on our own...

Overcome my problems

I would like to express my great gratitude because due to your book and treatment kit I have overcome my problems and now I can enjoy a healthy sex life. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Whole new approach

I read the . . book twice already 🙂 It was a whole new approach to me, so I wanted to read it completely to understand it better before the treatment. Now, I am at the Step 4. I loved this approach. It gave me a lot of explanations I needed and I think it was like a...

Reliable resource

I wanted to thank you for giving a reliable resource to so many women like myself. I had intense pain with intercourse for over two years. It seemed to have come up spontaneously, without any prior warning. After just 2 weeks using your dilator kit I was able to...

Cannot thank you enough

Hello..!! I would like to inform you that I have successfully completed the vaginismus self help programme and after three years of unconsummated marriage I am now able to have satisfactory intercourse with my husband. I took approximately 2 months to complete the...

Major bonus!

I overcame vaginismus in December 2007 and while I do contribute to the forum I never sent a message to say how very very thankful I am to your website and products for bringing me where I am today – that is being able to enjoy pain free sex. I still remember...

Happiest woman alive

I would like to thank you for saving my marriage. Me and my husband have been trying to have sex for years and we would end up more and more frustrated every single time we would try. After a while we got sick of trying and trying because we would get no where!! We...

Wonderful dedicated site

I just wanted to say thank you so much for this website. I struggled with vaginismus for 5 years and due to your spacers I was finally able to overcome. What a wonderful site dedicated to this very real and poorly understood problem! I am so glad I found your...

Many thanks!

First of all – THANK YOU. I’m gonna order a kit later today, and I’ve found your entire website so comforting to use – it has just about ALL the information I wanted to know when I realized I had vaginismus. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK...

Staff are very impressed

The dilators arrived today, thank you very much. All my staff are very impressed with both the product and the price. I will start recommending them to our patients and in the new year will probably purchase some sets so that we can give them to patients who cannot...

Excellent resource

I am a medical doctor and specialist in sexual health in Australia. I have recently received a copy of your book and workbook on vaginismus which I found an excellent resource. Apart from my practice I have a family company that provides books and products to the...

Heard some great things

I am a Women’s Health physical therapist in Shreveport, LA. I have heard some great things about your product, but I would like to receive some information personally from your company. Would you please send me some information, so I can pass it on to my...

Great product

I am a Physical Therapist at William Beaumont Hospital in Royal Oak, Michigan. My specialty area is treatment of pelvic floor muscle dysfunction. Do you suggest an introductory packet that I can purchase to show to my patients? Currently, one of my patients brought...

Help and kindness

Oh my goodness, thank you so much. I was just diagnosed with this condition a few days ago, so I am new to the entire aspect. I appreciate all of the support that I have gotten from this website so far, and look forward to being a part of the community. The help and...

I just love your products

I have finally completed the program. I was married on August 4, 2007 and found out shortly after that I had vaginismus. I was a virign at the time of my marriage, so I expected to have a little pain during sex. I didn’t know that I wouldn’t be able to...

Great results

I am a physical therapist who is starting a practice in Santa Cruz, CA that specializes in women’s health/pelvic floor rehab. I have encouraged many patients when I worked in Portland, OR, to use your dilator set and found great results. Heatherjean DeFord, MPT...

Thank God for your website

Omg, omg, omg, thank you, thank you, thank you. I am 21 years old and have been married for one year and two months and have never had penetration . . . Neither was i able to use a tampon on anything. Just last week my husband and I were talking about separating...

Resolution in 9 days after 16 years of struggling

I just wanted to let you know that I have finally overcome vaginismus after 16 years of struggling with this condition. Although my husband and I enjoyed a sexual relationship (outercourse as you refer to it), we were never able to achieve full penetration due to my...

Wanted to scream it from the roof tops

In the past I have seen a psychosexual counsellor, and a (very expensive!) top Harley Street (London) sex therapist. Both treatments unsuccessful – that’s when I decided to google ‘vaginismus’ on the internet and stubbled across the website....

Words are not enough

I must express my sincere gratitude to you, for this great thing you did for me. I got the kit yesterday – you are so wonderful, words are not enough for me to thank you. I pray that you always get help whenever and wherever you need it. Thank you so much.

Recommended to patients

I am a women’s health physical therapist at Georgetown University Hospital in Washington DC. I would like to recommend your 10 step book series to my patients. Would it be possible to provide me with a complimentary copy of the series for clinical use? Thanks!...

Don't give up!

I just wanted to let you know that I have finally overcome vaginismus after 16 years of struggling with this condition. Although my husband and I enjoyed a sexual relationship (outercourse as you refer to it), we were never able to achieve full penetration due to my...

Excited

I purchased your kit awhile back and finally started the process. I am done and was excited to be able to try intercourse for the first time in 2 years. Thank you for your help.

Info from website was helpful

The most important thing for me is that I got rid of the disease which had been caused rather with stress and fear, and lack of information then with physiology. In this case, the information from the website, the stories of women, and the hope to be cured were the...