Amazing Treatment Kit"
My husband and I got married a year and a half ago in March 2012, having waited
until marriage to have sex (as Christians). As everyone has already said, it
was a horrible shock to discover that he was 'hitting a wall' and couldn't go in
at all. Over the first few months of our marriage, it caused a lot of tension
as it seemed like I just couldn't relax, and he was frustrated. I felt so
inadequate, and like a failure, as if I wasn't a real woman. Then I found this
website, and your amazing treatment kit. I worked through the booklet,
alongside seeing a sex therapist (referred by my GP) and a personal therapist.
I realised how negative I felt towards sex having been brought up in a strongly
Christian home, and told not to do it, and then one day (wedding night) to
suddenly do it! It was hard to transition to seeing sex as something positive.
Anyway I worked through those issues and then started using the dilators...
I gave up for a while, as I was additionally going through bereavement and it was too draining to attempt it,
but it began to build tension between us again, even though we were orgasming in other ways. We ended
up having a 'make or break' row, where my husband said he'd reached the end of
his patience, and I said I refused to do the treatment without his full support.
We agreed to see it as OUR problem, not MY problem, and since then he's been
preparing the lube and dialators each night for me, encouraging me, and putting
them in for me sometimes!
Then, 17 months after our wedding date, we finally got to step 10 and managed to
do it, slowly and awkwardly, but it worked! I cried for about an hour
afterwards, letting out all the issues and emotion over it, as its been such a
hard journey. Since then, I've realised that sex doesn't solve everything, or
change your life massively, but it does bring a new closeness and 'oneness' that
enriches your relationship. I'm so grateful to you for the kit, and to God for
Keep going if you're still waiting for breakthrough, its unbelievable but it
DOES happen! You need to be determined though, and make time for it almost every
day. All the best...
Invaluable Guidance and Inspiration"
I am writing to thank you for your services that have helped me to overcome my primary vaginismus. I purchased the full kit eight months ago, and am now happy to say that I have been cured of this condition.
I still remember how my hands quivered when I googled my condition for the first time, shortly after my wedding late last year. I was worried and scared, and was extremely relieved to find out not only that I had a recognised condition that was treatable, but that there was accessible, affordable treatment available.
I ordered the kit straight away, and with my new husband's support, followed everything the book directed, including booking an initial visit to my GP, followed by a visit to a Sexual Health Doctor, the latter being quite impressed with my progress using the kit. The medical professionals (including a few visits to a specialised physio) did help me with my confidence and fine tuning, but my overall progress was definitely due to the course itself. I also gained some invaluable guidance and inspiration from hearing about the experiences of so many brave women on the private forum.
Thank you again so, so much. My husband and I will always be grateful.God bless
Very Happy, Healthy, and Loving Sex Life"
It was the month of August 2012 and we were a few months short of being married 7 years and still no sign of me getting pregnant. My biological clock is ticking fast..I never thought it would be so hard to get pregnant. All my friends were getting married and having babies. What was wrong with me? Why couldn't I get pregnant? Is my vagina too small for my husband's penis? I was always very healthy and strong. I did discover that when I went for a cervical smear test I became very nervous, anxious and experience pain when the instrument 'speculum' was inserted. Ouch.. I had to ask myself Why Me? My husband was at the doctor's one evening and mentioned it to his doctor who at a later date referred us onto a Pychotherapist. Our 1st appointment was on the last Thursday, August 2012. We discussed our problems with him. From then on we met once a week for an hour and he asked us to do some exercises that would help us to connect and relax. In October 2012 our Pychotherapist discovered from the way I was feeling and due to a bicycle accident I had when I was a child that I suffered from this condition known as 'Vaginismus'. I never ever heard of this condition before. He done some research and saw there was a book and kit I could get that would be most beneficial to me so he ordered it online and I began the program. I started on Step 1 and worked my way gradually to Step 10. In March 2013 I can proudly say I overcame 'Vaginismus' and can now enjoy a very happy, healthy and loving sex life. I am so grateful to:-
Mark & Lisa Carter for this splendid book, my Pychotherapist for all his hard work and patience and to my husband for all his help and support during this difficult time in my life. In the future months to come we would love to start a family, but in the meantime, we can now both enjoy having (pain free) sexual intercourse regularly and it's only wonderful. A dream come true finally for both of us. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU SO MUCH.
This Is An Amazing Program"
Thank-you so much helping me. My husband and I have been married for 7 years.
We have been unable to have sex more than a few times a year. There is no
logical explanation for my vaginismus (I was never abused, had an injury,
surgery, or an overly strict upbringing). I discovered your website and
realized my husband had made the exact comment of some of the other husbands -
that it felt like he was "hitting a wall". I knew then this is what I had and
why sex was so difficult for us. I had seen 3 OB/GYNs. None seemed concerned
about my problem. This is an amazing program, and I have recommended it to my
new OB/GYN in case she sees anyone else like me. I worked through your program
for over a year, and we are finally able to work towards a normal intimate life.
We got pregnant my 1st month after I completed the program! I don't think our
life can still be considered "normal", but we are the way to getting there.
No Other Techniques Worked"
My wife and I had been married two years before we found your site. We ordered
the kit (i.e. the books and the dilators) and followed the program diligently.
We are happy to tell you that we successfully consummated our marriage last
week. We cannot tell you how grateful we are to you. No other techniques worked. Thank
you, thank you, thank you.
I would just like to thank you so very much for providing this program and the
kit! After discovering that I had vaginismus four months ago I was disheartened
by the lack of information and help that seemed to be available to me. However,
after some searching I stumbled upon this website and I can safely say that it
is the best thing that has ever happened to me.
Within only three months of ordering the kit, I have been cured of vaginismus! I
really cannot recommend your kit highly enough! Thank you once more for enabling
me to overcome this disorder. It has changed my life for the better!
Thank You From The Bottom Of My Heart"
Thank you, thank you, Thank you from the bottom of my heart.. I know I could
not have done it without your help and the kit. My first marriage was
unconsummated and I was miserable wondering if I could break this pattern in my
second marriage. I didn't even try to have sex in my first marriage. Just the
thought was painful and pap smears excruciatingly painful.
Thank you for having this website so easily available to everyone. This was a
problem I could not speak to anyone about and could not figure out. It took me
5 years of pain to discover that there was a solution. I am now able to have
intercourse easily. It took about 3 years into my second marriage to finally
have sex and I am so grateful that I am healed. I was about to join a $3000
program to help with the vaginismus but decided to give the dilators a try
again. To everyone, who has tried the dilators but not succeeded, please try
again. Sometimes, the body just needs a little time to adapt but it does, does
work. I promise. All you need is a commitment that took me awhile to make.
Now, we look forward to having a baby together. Also, your customer service was awesome.
Best Decision Of My Life"
Struggling with Vaginismus has been the hardest thing I have ever had to go
through. I was depressed and felt like I would never overcome. I had heard
about the kit, but didn't want to pay the price, especially if we could do it
on our own for free. But after 10 long months of marriage and no sex, my
husband and I were at our wits end. I caved in and made the best decision of my
life. Your kit came in the nick of time! One of the most useful tools was the
forum. I was encouraged by other testimonies and told that this disorder does
not define who I am. I need these contacts with women who felt the very same
feelings as me. I no longer felt alone. I couldn't wait to share ever progress
I made with them. This week my husband and I had sex for the first time. And
after 3 times it was even enjoyable for me. I am indebted to you and have
already shared the site with others. I feel so great about the progress we made
in so little time. It's true that it does take time and devotion, but it's worth
it. I couldn't have done it without the kit. Thank you so much for such a
I thought I was a desperate case.I bought the “Completely overcome vaginismus” kit and followed the programme supported by my husband’s support and patience.
I still can’t believe that we made it! We still have many things to learn and difficulties to overcome and it isn’t always easy, but we have so much more confidence and hope now because what we thought impossible became possible!
I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart because if it weren’t for you, for your simply existing and being there with your precious book, kit, advice, competence and heart my husband and I would never have been able to have intercourse.
You helped us make our marriage more complete.
We are immensely grateful, God bless you . .
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