Vaginismus Treatment Products

Customer/Patient/User Reviews

"Cried in each other’s arms"

I just have to write with tears rolling down my cheeks and say THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! My husband and I decided to wait until after marriage to have sex, and soon discovered that it wasn't happening. We tried a few times with no success -- just lots of pain and feeling like he was hitting a wall. It became super frustrating, as many here can attest. Instead of being proactive and trying to find a solution, I adapted a "maybe-it-will-go-away-if-we-don't-talk-about-it" mentality. It was our elephant in the room, the huge problem in our otherwise perfect marriage. It was painful to hear other people talking about sex, or to hear of other friends getting pregnant, when we knew that was an impossibility for us.

My husband found your website around Christmas 2008 and we ordered the kit in March 2009. Due to my many excuses, I didn't start using it right away. Our relationship continued to be strained, and we even split up a few times this summer, only to get back together, knowing that we wanted to be together but desperately needed this element in our marriage. I began using the kit in May 2009, starting with the simple Kegel exercises. To have such small successes even at first was inspiring and motivating to keep going. I knew I could do it!! The day of my first insertion with D1 was amazingly empowering. I just can't explain the feeling when you are finally in control of something that you struggled with for so long. I faithfully continued with the training exercises over the next couple months, and was amazed at the progress.

Although I was scared about the progression to intercourse with my husband, the transition was nearly seamless. It was just so (for lack of a better word) AWESOME to finally share this with my best friend. It was an intensely emotional experience, and we cried in each other's arms. We now share everything, our 4-year-old marriage is finally consummated, we are intimate in every way, and it feels insanely wonderful.

I cannot thank you enough for this kit! It provided me with the information I needed to overcome my condition, as well as encouragement throughout the process. My life has definitely changed, and I AM HAPPIER THAN I HAVE EVER BEEN!! I no longer regard myself as a freak, and my husband and I are fulfilled and satisfied in a place where we never thought we would or could be.

THANK YOU! THANK YOU!! THANK YOU SO MUCH!! Without a doubt, the BEST $100 we ever spent. You truly saved our marriage, and our thank-you's will never ever be enough.

"4 years of miserable guilt and anxiety"

Dear Mark and Lisa Carter,

I want to you thank you and your team for putting this great resource together-It not only helped me overcome vaginismus, but freed me from the miserable guilt and anxiety that had engulfed me for the past 4 years of my married life.

I did not even know that I was suffering from this condition before I visited your website-And I am so glad that I did. I was a virgin before I got married and feared sex greatly (partly due to a strict and conservative upbringing; and ill-informed friends and acquaintances). My husband had great expectations of intimacy from this new relationship-and these were repeatedly crashed again and again--and I held myself responsible-not knowing whom to talk to-where to go to seek help! Frustration was growing and something needed to be done! That’s when I came across your website and ordered the self help kit--and the rest is history.

I am elated at this new personal achievement of mine and I want to pass this message to all those that visit your website seeking help:

"Look no further-In finding this website-consider half the work already done!! Go ahead and order the self-help kit-It will work wonders! -Good Luck!'

Thanks again,

Also-Since this is a very personal matter-I would appreciate if you could please keep my information confidential-Please do not publish my name and other details anywhere.--you can post my message---but PLEASE PLEASE do not post my name anywhere.

"11 months of extreme pain"

How can I say thank you enough for your wonderful website and products? My husband and I had been married 11 months but the extreme pain during intercourse had reduced our sex life to zero! In our frustration, we had tried silly things like getting me drunk in the hope that I would be too knocked out to feel anything! Of course it was in vain! That PC muscle was never fooled by any trick!I had visited several sex specialists who insisted there was no such condition and I only had to get used to my husband's "size"! Many had prescribed herbs to stimulate my lubrication which in their opinion was the cause!! None of their solutions worked!

Then one morning after another of our endless failed attempts, I went to the internet and just like that I found you!!! I could not believe the stories of so many women out there going through the same thing!

My immediate concern was the fact that many of the site and product users were from the US! Being in Uganda, Africa, I wondered whether I would benefit from the products!

Of course my fears were dispelled by your quick response to my order and your reliable call centre! In three weeks I had my kit delivered right at my doorstep!

Within a month, the powerful PC muscle had been conquered and slowly we were mastering the art and tact of sex!

Althogh I know we still have a lot to learn (and hope we never stop) I must stress that you opened this entire world of possibilities to us! Thank you, thank you and keep up the good work!

Am constantly on the look out for anyone with the same problem so I can share your solution. I have also introduced the product to the sex specialists who did not know about it. That is my simple way of giving back!

Laslty, if you ever want to do any work in Africa, you know you can count on me!

Much love and gratitude

"Unable to have sex"

I just want to give you my positive feedback after using your product. I have purchase the book/dilator kit and the result is amazing. Before your site, I have visited numerous physician and they don't really have an answer to cure my problem. I was worry about my relationship with my boyfriend and that unable to have sex would affect our intimate relationship. But thanks to your service and product, after just a month and a half we are able to have intercourse with very less pain. Before this, I was unable to do a prep test or even put in a tampon. Even my physician who had never heard of your service before are amaze by the result.

I hope you can continue help many other women who suffer from the same problem. Vaginismus should not be a burden for any women. I will definitely pass on my positive experience to other who had similar situation.

"Great and Quick"

I wanted to thank you for making the book and kit available. Your service in sending it out was great and quick and easy, and your website is excellent and informative and so glad I found it. I wish we had someone like you in the UK! Kind regards [Editors Note: We are active in the UK and regularly help women in all countries with vaginismus]

"Constructive Criticism"

I am writing to thank you for your excellent kit and also offer a constructive criticism of the website.

I overcame vaginismus in about 6 weeks using your kit, and am very thankful for this. I also found the forum extremely helpful, and still use it from time to time.

I have recommended your website to my GP and today to a top fertility consultant, who was very interested to hear of it and the success I have had with it.

I knew about your website for a long time before ordering the kit. The reason I didn't order it earlier is that the website gives the impression of a glossy advertising website which is selling something. I assumed that if you are putting that much effort into selling it with all the photos of models then it must be a product that doesn't work.

There is no need for all these pictures of perfect people, as if you are trying to promote a product. You are offering a very effective solution to a problem. No one would buy the kit unless they needed it, but it a shame to put people off buying it because it looks so over-promoted and advertised that it must be a gimmick.

I am British so perhaps the website does not give that impression to Americans, but from reading the forums I know I am not the only one who knew about the website for a long time before ordering from it.

The new testimonies and information on what the treatment involves go a long way towards giving the impression that this is actually a kit for real people with a real problem rather than a gimmick for supermodels, but I still think there is no need for all the glossy photos.

Once I got into the forums and saw that here were real people struggling as I was I had a completely different view of the website than I got from the glossy photos and advertising speak of the main pages.

Thanks again for a very valuable kit. I hope the front pages of the website don't put anyone else off buying it who needs it.

"Changed my life"

Your website and materials have given me hope and helped me change my life. Thank you so much.

"I know I will be able to overcome this"

I received your kit a couple of weeks ago....I have read and watched the DVD.....I have just started the insertions....I'm very happy with my small success! The knowledge you provided me has helped me so much and I can't thank you enough.....I have been living with this and feeling so embarrassed and not normal....I am lucky to have such a supportative husband....thanks to you I know I will be able to overcome this! Thank you so much!

"A 1000 ‘Thank yous’"

I am 68 years old and my husband is 54. For 5 to 8 years now intercourse has been increasingly painful. I have visited several doctors over the years with no relief. My family doctor said I did not need to see a gynecologist and told me to use [vaginal moisturizer] when needed. I saw a gynecologist anyway and she said I had vaginal atrophy and to have a hormonal ring inserted into my vagina every 3 months @ $375.00 a time. 4 strikes there - 1. Too expensive 2. Invasive 3. Unknown side effects and 4. Unsanitary.

Then I discovered a sex therapist, offering treatment for medical and psychological therapy. This doctor told me to use [vaginal moisturizer] 3x week and not to bother with dilators. After . . month or so I started to feel irritations from it and stopped using it. Fortunately I knew enough on how to undo the damage with natural remedies e.g. GSE douche, special tea and beet juice drinks to restore PH balance. Meanwhile I prayed for a solution: to a least have pain free sex. It would not be fair to my husband to no longer have sex. Then I discovered your product on the internet.

I ordered your full package and have never been disappointed. There was some delay in your company receiving my check and your employees sent the order out anyway. The communication between us was always kind, prompt and helpful. Fortunately they received the check soon after. I then started sharing this information with my husband and he has been extremely supportive. He waited several months and never asked when, when, when before resuming intercourse. He booked us a week trip to Mexico in January which gave me a goal to be ready. About 4 nights into our trip there were flower petals on our beds. I thought it was because we had been so patient with the staff as they had a huge influx of vacationers leaving and arriving that day and did not make up our rooms until after 9:00 pm, but I also think my husband might have ordered the flower petals. I keep forgetting to ask him. I asked him to read the book you sent so he could understand. I never saw him read it but apparently he did. Our love making and sharing has improved so much and is barely ever painful. We have always had a special connection but our friendship is even richer and more patient now.

I am amazed at how smart you have been to figure this all out. The whole world should know about your product . . There must be many people that need your product. It is so helpful and reasonably priced.

Thank you, thank you, thank you, a 1,000 thank yous.

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