Thank you … I am in my 40s and really wish that your book had been around 20 years ago … In my teens I was unable successfully to use tampons. I first tried to have sexual intercourse at age 20, but my boyfriend was unable to get his penis in. After that, though I had in my 20's several other relationships with men, I avoided having sexual intercourse and never married … I had one unsuccessful attempt to have a [pap] smear test … I did from time to time mention to several G.P.s (with embarrassment) that I had never been able to have sexual intercourse, but none of them appeared really interested in offering help … I went to see a specialist doctor about my thyroid gland … He referred me to an eminent gynaecologist, but I was too tense to let him examine me and he was not very sympathetic, saying that I was coming to see him 10 years too late. Three years or so later I was prevailed upon to see another gynaecologist who examined me under anaesthetic with a view to carrying out a hymenectomy … He also gave me a prescription for vaginal dilators … I did not find him interested in or sympathetic regarding vaginismus. He didn't ask me to make any follow up appointments to check on my use of the dilators … I did not make great headway with the dilators until, searching the internet I found your website and ordered your book, last year. I found the information that you provided about the pc muscles an absolute revelation and felt that the pc muscle exercises that you recommended were the key to getting somewhere.
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