Should we consider adopting if our time is running out? Should we just give up and move-on?

Adoption is a viable option for couples with vaginismus.

Women with vaginismus who feel they are running out of time, miss the fertility window, or simply want to consider other options, may also wish to consider the possibility of adoption. Adopting children is obviously a very personal choice and one that demands much consideration. Ideally, adoption will not be something that is just 'settled for' but rather an option that is chosen carefully and embraced to enrich family life.

There are many agencies and options when it comes to adoption. Places to start researching might include visiting different adoption organization websites, contacting local agencies, or connecting with local and international social workers.

Whatever couples decide concerning adoption, we encourage them to continue with vaginismus treatment resolution. Resolving vaginismus helps to ensure a happier home environment for new children and is helpful for long-term relational health.

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Baby Blues - Conception, Pregnancy & Vaginismus

• I can’t have intercourse and my biological clock is ticking. Any advice?
• Should we consider adopting if our time is running out? Should we just give up and move-on?
• If I am unable to have gynecological exams due to vaginismus, how can I get through all the doctor’s visits and vaginal ultrasounds for my pregnancy?
• Will vaginismus cause complications or impede vaginal delivery of a baby? Will the pelvic floor muscles spasm or cause problems?
• Can natural childbirth help relieve pre-existing vaginismus by stretching the vaginal opening?
• Can childbirth cause vaginismus? Can it be prevented?

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